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Giving The Ultimate Blow Job!
by
WiseWoman
One of the most honoring and sexy ways a man can be pleasured is when a
woman adores his cock. I think a cock represents about 80% of his ego
<giggle>, so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to
completely and thoroughly ADORE his cock. One of the BEST ways to do this is
to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it, I mean take it in
your hand, devour it, lick it hard, suck it hard and feel it down your
throat.
First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by how you go
about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not
there. Be PASSIONATE about giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn
him on so incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob today," and he
will remember it for many hours of masturbation later. <smile>
A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give her man
pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make sure he knows YOU are
sucking him; he is NOT fucking your face! One thing I always tell the man is
not to put his hand on my head. I don't need any help pushing my head down.
God I just HATE that!!!
Here are some tips (hee hee, pun intended) for truly making love to your
partners penis:
1) Grab his cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard.
Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man jack off??? You
think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LOL. He yanks that thing and
pulls it so hard, you think he is going to pull it off!!!
2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He
will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He is
thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites him
unbelievably. Remember,
you are sucking his EGO.
3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The saliva heats
up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.
4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. I love men who shave down there
because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is
more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!
5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth. On
circumcised men (more common in America than anywhere in the world) the lip
of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip
as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't
know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is
the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up
the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your
rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking
at the same time. Then plunge his cock down your throat while tonguing his
shaft
wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any
time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and
moans from your man. (They are usually looking up at the heavens by this
time <snicker>)
6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are lying on the bed
between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching
you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs,
nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can guide it carefully
away from your back teeth. Guys, who pull your hand away, sometimes regret
it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those
sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away
though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that
he wants you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if he is
small (4" or less) and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft.
Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock
disappear (as if down your throat).
7) One time I was with some bi men and was watching how they sucked each
other, and one technique I had never tried is to start at the tip and spiral
down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist your head and mouth as you go down.
Apparently this feels great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too
long for you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The
gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can
circumvent that reflex with practice in opening up your lower throat. I love
to be able to get ten inches down my throat. <wicked grin> Who doesn't???
(We know where it eventually ends up don't we?? Hee hee hee).
8) Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls
because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them
and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then
moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from
this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock
and feel him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.
9)Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your
tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the
head one way, than the
other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.
10) I recently discovered how much fun playing with an uncircumcised cock
is. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew on. Most men who are
uncut are extremely sensitive when you expose his penis by pushing the skin
all the way down and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as
some can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he prefers.
Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up makes it a little difficult to
create and maintain a good suction, but it is much easier doing the up and
down motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave the skin up
and stick my tongue between the outer skin and see how far down I can slide
my tongue in before the skin folds back with my motion. Pressure is
important too. Squeezing with your lips as you move up and down is VERY
important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is
usually what makes him cum.
11) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is when I use
my teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of
saliva for gliding your teeth on. I start out by having my teeth clenched
together at the tip of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open
my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then
I flick my tongue as my teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This
sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually
elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that??"
12) And last but not least, swallowing cum. I have asked men which they
prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him jacking off in the last seconds
before he cums, onto her breasts, ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching
porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the
norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot." As a result, many men
associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and cumming on her breasts,
face, tummy or ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of your
labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your breasts. And it's
especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans
you up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want
you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys online, "Do you
swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you
remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his
penis. If
you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.
After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now.
It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few
minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely
to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.
You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in
ways he might not be familiar. Listen to the noises he makes and be acutely
aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to
just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things:
Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus
swallowing his cum is going to get your
man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.
© 2003 Tami Fox. All rights reserved.
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